The holidays can be difficult for many people, but those who are newly sober face even greater challenges. The ongoing COVID-19 pandemic has also affected millions of people throughout the country, damaging mental health and causing isolation, financial strain and uncertainty.
The 2020 holiday season may be a perfect storm of negative emotions and triggering events for people in recovery. Because of this, it’s important to know what to do to avoid triggers, cope with emotions and prevent risks of relapse. The following will provide some tips for maintaining recovery over the holidays, whether you’re in active treatment or long-term recovery.
The holidays may bring different challenges, depending on where you are in your addiction recovery journey. Fortunately, these strategies can help you stay focused on recovery and avoid triggering situations.
If you’re in inpatient treatment over the holidays, it’s easy to feel lonely, or like you’re missing out on festivities. First and foremost, it’s important to remember the reasons why you’re attending treatment in the first place. One of these reasons likely includes becoming healthier for your family, friends and loved ones. While it can be difficult to be in treatment during the holidays, know that the hard work you’re doing now can bring you to a better future.
To help yourself cope during the holidays, you can:
If you’re in outpatient care, you may still be on shaky ground when it comes to your sobriety. You are sober, but treatment is not over, and you may not have effective relapse prevention strategies in place yet. As such, it’s important to be extra careful, whether you’re staying at home or attending events.
You can help manage difficult situations by:
It will also help to speak with your therapist or counselor about what triggers you have and what you should do when things become overwhelming. Additionally, you may want to rearrange your treatment schedule if you are planning to attend holiday gatherings.
Whether you’ve recently completed rehab treatment or have been in recovery for years, the holiday season can still present a variety of unique triggers. It’s important to stay committed to your recovery and give yourself opportunities to break away from overwhelming situations and peer pressure. Here are a few tips to help you:
Putting too much emphasis on the importance of the holidays will cause stress and may lead you to make poor decisions. The best course of action is to treat the holidays as just another day in recovery and continue to do the healthy things you have been doing to stay sober.
Thinking about how you will handle the tempting situations you will encounter over the holidays will help you make a plan that will allow you to navigate them successfully. Plans could include having a ride or knowing public transportation schedules if you need to leave an event suddenly, practicing how you will turn down a drink, or deciding what to do if you begin to feel uncomfortable.
When people notice your sobriety, they will probably comment on it or ask questions, so it is important to decide what you will say ahead of time. If you are not comfortable talking about your sobriety, you can always make some excuse (“I’m trying to lose weight;” “I have to get up early for work”), but even if you feel comfortable talking about your recovery process, it helps to think about what you want to say ahead of time so you are not caught off guard.
In the middle of a party where it seems like everyone is having fun and that alcohol and drugs are part of that fun, your reasons for staying sober can sometimes seem to just fade away. Remembering where using substances got you in the past and why you are on a recovery journey now can be important in preventing relapse and keeping you sober during the holidays when temptation seems to be everywhere.
A feeling of pride about your sobriety is a beneficial attitude to have because it will motivate you to continue with your sobriety and not be as likely to relapse. You do not have to brag or share your feelings with others if you do not want to, but an inward sense of accomplishment is very good protection against relapse.
If you’re the family member, friend or loved one of someone in treatment or recovery, there are ways you can help foster the holiday spirit:
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